So maybe lean into that first part. You know what you want. What you like. Chances are whoever your with wants that too. Sounds like your biggest problem is nerves.
I didn't confess until it was nearly too late and she was engaged to someone else, but I had a crush on her since I was a kid. But she chose to stay with Eddie. Then he died saving everyone, so I set my feelings aside for awhile and saw someone else I really liked, too. Eventually Iris was able to admit she had them too, after I met versions of us who were married on Earth-2.
Knowing who I'm secure with is not as obvious as I'd like it to be. But maybe Caitlin wouldn't mind, or maybe Val.
Comfortable around, then? I don't know. It's not like I've done a lot of that outside of the four boyfriends I've had over the years. Though long-distance with Forrest kind of honed that ability.
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Date: 2023-07-06 06:45 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2023-07-06 07:11 pm (UTC)It's more the subject matter and general awkwardness in saying what I'd like to do with someone.
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Date: 2023-08-26 10:55 pm (UTC)The only way out is through, Barry. Start with people you know will like the dirty talk. That you're secure in.
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Date: 2023-08-27 01:35 am (UTC)Knowing who I'm secure with is not as obvious as I'd like it to be. But maybe Caitlin wouldn't mind, or maybe Val.
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Date: 2023-08-31 04:27 pm (UTC)